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No matter what anyone tells you, cold calling is tough business for the average network marketer. Notice that I said average since we are not talking about experienced salespeople or industry experts that have people running after them to join their businesses. These people have the unique ability to use the telephone as a tool on an entirely different level. We are talking about the average Joe that has little to no experience in business and is told that he can just buy some leads and jump on the phone and start calling.
I’ve been in sales for over a decade and picking up that phone can be tough for me too, so I know where you are. There are some that would argue that calling purchased leads is not cold calling and these tips don’t apply. But, call it what you may, it’s not easy. With that said, cold calling prospects is a major part of the home business industry and it will probably remain that way for quite some time. So, for those of you that want to pursue this kind of marketing (not all of us do), here are a few ideas that may help to lessen your burden.
Generate Your Own Leads:
By generating your own leads, you immediately change the dynamics of cold calling and put yourself into a position of power and strength. When you purchase cold leads, you have no real idea when the lead was created, how it was created, or how many times that particular lead was sold. Therefore, you are generally at a disadvantage and you open the door to many surprises such as the person telling you that they never completed any requests for information.
When you generate your own leads, you personally know that the individual visited your web site and filled out a request form. You also know the exact time that the request was made. Most importantly, you don’t have to worry about the lead being sold to multiple people as you are the sole owner of that name. I would probably put generating your own leads near the top in terms of ways to make this task easier.
Target Your Market:
By targeting your market more effectively, you automatically reduce your stress in contacting your prospects. These people are going to be interested in your business, product, or service at a far higher rate, thereby making your task of contacting them less stressful. It’s critical to know what kinds of people are buying your product now and that will help you to pinpoint those that will want to hear from you the most.
Two Person Calling:
Another way to immediately erase some of the stress of cold calling is to spend time calling leads with a partner. By calling with another person, it allows you to have that support in the background and it’s also a great way to learn. Once the call is over, you and your partner can discuss what went well and what needs to be improved. In addition, you might even get a laugh or two from some of the crazy things that people say on the phone. Either way, it can definitely help to get you through the process.
Call with No Agenda:
If you call leads with the purpose of getting them into your business, you will raise your stress level 1000%. I sold advertising for years and never admitted to myself or my prospects that I was coming to sell them an ad. As a matter of fact, I had totally convinced myself that I simply wanted to “show them the sample” and that was it. I honestly believed and projected the attitude that I don’t care if you buy or not so don’t waste our time. On the other hand, if you are interested, I would be happy to stop by and show you what we are talking about. This basic attitude helped me to make many “no pressure” sales over the years and it also made things easier for my prospects.
Send Them Something in Advance:
Another way to help alleviate the stress of cold calling is to send your prospects something in advance. What you send will depend on your budget and a few other factors. You can send them an email with instructions on what the first step is to learn about your business. It doesn’t mean that you send them off to your company web site and hope that they will join. All you want to do is tell them in the email what the initial step is going to be. You can also do the same thing via mail with a postcard or letter.
How you make contact with the person is really not that important. The important thing is to break the ice and give yourself a reason to call them. It actually helps with your “no agenda” stance mentioned above. When you call leads that have received something from you in advance, it definitely makes it more comfortable to call them because you just want to make sure they received your information. You will pick up the phone with greater confidence and that will come through to your prospect.
Know Your Immediate Purpose:
There is truly no point whatsoever in cold calling any person if you don’t know why you are calling them. That may sound obvious but it’s not. Many new business owners will grab their list of hot prospects and start calling without any true direction of where they want the call to go.
- Do you want to simply confirm that they received your advance email or postcard?
- Do you want to invite them to a web site presentation or a phone presentation?
- Are you local and planning on meeting them at the next upcoming event?
These are the things that you should know prior to sitting down to make your first call. Once you are ready to start calling, set a time, stick to it, and just do it. Procrastination is the killer of all dreams (and it causes unwanted stress too). If you will take the time to employ the tips shared, the telephone should become your greatest asset.
E Kinton
http://www.articlesbase.com/home-business-articles/cold-calling-tips-and-6-ways-to-make-it-easier-97194.html


wowzers!!!repost need more input?
ok so i came across this article on yahoo featured and was shocked to see these break up tips from a woman..this is some harsh ****..excuse the language but jesus some of the tips are just real damn cold.One of the tips is dont worry if you ruin somebodys life they will get over you someday,i mean some people are so hurt bad and cant deal with it they kill themselves and i understand heartbreak is something everybody got to go thru at one point in time but damn these women are heartless now a days.I mean in the past it was you married somebody and that was it you were happy now its like ok im happy with you but sometimes im not i want to be with someone who makes me happy all the time!!!So i guess my real question is that how most of you women think I know younger girls in my generation do but i mean wats ur logic for that?im just curious give me some feedback and if i know some of u dudes got some words for this too
ps i posted the article too jsut incase u wanted to see it!!
I recently had the following conversation with a friend:
"Every time I break up with my boyfriend, he freaks out. He showed up outside my apartment last time."
"Well sounds like you just have to break up and get it over with."
"Yeah, but it's not a good situation every time I do it."
I stopped and thought for a second. "Not a good situation?" Isn't that kind of obvious? How can anyone expect a breakup to be a good situation at all?
Breaking up is a selfish act that can be a necessary evil in your dating life. But there are easier ways to do the whole process.
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The first step is to adjust your mentality and recognize the situation:
You are not ruining someone's life; they will get over you some day.
If you don't break up quickly and honestly, it's unfair to you and the other person.
If you don't break up quickly and honestly, it's unfair to you and the other person.
If you are even thinking about breaking up with someone, it's probably time to do it. Would you want to be with someone who was having second thoughts while you were madly in love with them?
It's going to be ugly and there's nothing anyone can do about it.
What's the best way to break up? There is probably no best way. But there are a number of tactics that can help make it easier for both parties (even though both parties may not recognize it at the time). Here are some good tactics to use for a "clean" break:
1. Make It Fast
The longer you take to get to the point (whether it's hours or days), the less they will take you seriously. And if you make it look like you're having a hard time going through with the breakup, they will think they can change your feelings or stick around in your life.
2. Be Honest
Don't sugarcoat the situation. If you're seeing someone else, tell them you're seeing someone else. My little sister broke up with a live-in boyfriend because she kissed another guy during a business trip. She told her boyfriend the deal — it made it more concrete. Avoid cliche's like "I love you, I'm just not in love with you." Guys don't understand this stuff. If you've lost feelings for them, just say it. They can't argue with that. And avoid covering up — "I just can't be in a relationship right now." Sure you can — if you were still really into him, you'd be in a relationship with him.
Honesty will protect you in the long run, because the truth comes out eventually.
Honesty will protect you in the long run, because the truth comes out eventually.
3. Don't Feel Sorry for Anyone
People will beg, cry, get angry, or shower you with guilt. Just keep going, try to ward off your guilt. It's just going to slow you down and prevent you from getting to your objective. And never take someone back, or cancel breaking up because you feel sorry for them. Do you really want to stay with someone you feel sorry for?
4. Set Post-Breakup Rules
Let them know the deal: you won't be answering their calls or emails. You won't be accommodating them if they show up at your apartment. Eventually, if they have any personality and independence, they will stop bothering you — but only if you stick to these rules. If you lay these rules out at the time of breakup, then they can't say: "why are you ignoring my calls?" Don't tell them what they are allowed to do — they can call you all they want, but if you have stated you won't be answering their calls then you are well within your rights when you don't pick up.
5. Stick With It
The more you take them back, the less seriously they'll take your breakup attempts.
6. Neutral Site
Never do it at your place. You want to be able to leave on your own time. Neutral places are the easiest locations to make a quick getaway. The longer you've been together, the more likely it is that you'll be required to do it in person.
Breaking up takes strength. I have found that people who can't break up with someone they are no longer
Yes, when breaking up, its best to be honest and direct. In fact, its best to be honest and direct in most things in life. This is just one of the things that you learn as you become an adult.
And so many men these days are so immature and girlish…they expect to be treated the same way that their moms treat them….sorry boys, that aint a gonna happen with a real woman. We want men, not boys. My advice: Man-up and get on with your life and you will be happier in spite of yourself.
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